Spacing of Children

Q: I am 27 and my first child just turned one last week. We are starting to talk about having baby number two and I was wondering what your opinion is on how far apart to space your pregnancies. I have heard some people say 18 months, but I have also heard some people say more or less than this. Let me know...thanks!

A: The spacing of children is a very personal decision but there are some medical statistics that might help in your decision making. Medically speaking the ideal spacing of children (the time between the birth of one child and the birth of the next child) is between 18-60 months. Spacing sooner or later may slightly increase the risk of premature birth and low birth weight.

Other factors may include obstetrical history (gestational age of prior delivery, route of delivery, pregancy/delivery complications, etc.), general health, age, number of children you desire, age you want to be finished having children, etc. If you had a high risk pregnancy you may want to sit down with your health care provider and discuss ideal pregancy spacing for you, specifically.

Some women do great having a shorter space between children. Others need more time to feel physically and emotionally ready. Also consider the age and stage of your first child when your second child would be born. Do you mind having two babies in diapers, for example. Everyone has their opinion on the matter. I would say the most important opinions are those of you and your husband. You should have your next baby when you feel you are physically and emotionally ready.

Thanks! ~Lisa